How To Be a Better Listener

How can you show someone that you care about them, respect their thoughts and feelings and help build a better relationship?  Listen to them.  It seems so simple, but listening well is actually an important skill.  It involves paying close attention to the person you’re listening to and responding appropriately.

Here are some quick tips to become a better listener:

  • Ask questions to show your interest in the conversation
  • Acknowledge what the other person is saying by nodding or agreeing
  • Consider opening up your non-verbal language
  • Keep your phone in your bag or put it on silent
  • Don’t interrupt the other person
  • Repeat the last few words of the other person’s message
  • Don’t rush other people to finish their sentences
  • Be okay with silent moments in a conversation